It's been almost 2 months since you left to begin a new life and
the pain of your leaving is so deep because our life together for
the 30+ years was so deep. We had something so special and close
that many people never experience. You shared your love with our
four beautiful children, family and friends and never asked for
anything in return. You never complained about your health, but
rather would quickly focus on the needs of others.
I miss our quiet times together...after work over a glass of wine,
sharing the days events. I miss our hugs and kisses we gave each
other every day. I miss your words of support and encouragement,
your wisdom, your comfort that gave me such strength. I do hear
you talking to me through my thoughts because I know you are by
me as you promised you would "watch me like a hawk" if
you went before me. It gives me comfort to hear you; however, the
physical separateness is really hard and painful. I pray to Jesus
for strength to understand and accept this new change and I look
forward to the day when you will great me when it's time.
I love you angel....forever....
Diane
Dear Diane,
You teach us all that our relationships with the deceased continue
to live, even as there has been death. A love letter written to
your husband reminds all who visit www.cemeteries.org that they
too may continue to learn, and live, and love. Thank you, Diane,
for your wisdom and sharing. May the support of fellow travelers
of this web site be a small measure of support for you on your grief
journey.